
October 26, 2025
Ephesians 1:11-23
Luke 6:20-31
I remember a good number of things. I also forget a good number of things. Some of them I’m happy to forget, especially if they made me unhappy at the time. Some of them I wish I could remember, especially if they involve the question of where did I put down my keys?
The i’iwi wasn’t much worried about the things he’d remember. He was worried about the things others would remember about him.
A lot of i’iwi get remembered by other birds as being, well, kind of aggressive. Bossy. Selfish. They drive other birds away from the places that they’re eating. Other kinds of birds do that, too, but when an i’iwi gets aggressive, ‘apapane and ‘amakihi will tend to give in and fly away.
“But is that,” he asked himself, “how I want to be remembered?”
He knew plenty of i’iwi that loved to chase other birds away. They claimed that they ate better when they did, but he also knew i’iwi that tended to ignore other birds, even slept in the same trees overnight. They seemed to eat just as well, he thought.
“How do I,” he asked himself, “want to be remembered?”
He had a friend who was one of the most effective bullies around. Where some of the aggressive i’iwi would chase an ‘apapane for a couple of feet, he’d chase them for a twice or three times as far. Sometimes he’d chase a bird so far that he’d find another bird in the place where he’d started, and he’d chase that one, too. If that seems like extra work to you, it does to me, too. Still, he was flashy (but then, all i’iwi are pretty flashy) and he was popular (as long as he wasn’t chasing you).
“But is that,” he asked himself, “how I want to be remembered?”
Then he remembered his grandmother.
She didn’t take any nonsense from other birds, no she didn’t. No ‘apapane had ever driven her away from a cluster of ohi’a blossoms. But she’d never chased an ‘apapane, either, or an ‘amakihi, or a young i’iwi. In fact, she’d let other birds know when she’d found a good spot, whatever the color of their feathers.
His grandmother loved him. He knew that, because she used to hop aside so he could get to the best flowers.
He loved his grandmother.
He went to find her, and said, “I want to be remembered like you, grandmother.”
“That’s good,” she said. “Let’s go see if we can find something good to eat, and then we’ll let everybody else know.”
That’s how both of them would be remembered.
by Eric Anderson
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Photo of an i’iwi (being reflective?) by Eric Anderson.





